Papa, the first time I met you was when you came to help install internet at my house and you had changed my teenage life when internet began to boom back in the early 2000s. I was 14 back then and I was so blessed to have known you ever since then. I got to grow up with you and see what a talented and artistic man you were, I thought you were a decorator at one point as you redecorated so much to perfection! You were always such a gentleman to mum and a very loving father to my sister. I won’t forget when you saw me get emotional at Sapna’s wedding and you told me to come over, you always looked out for others. I will miss your soups, especially the ginger soup, I think I was the only one that actually liked it as I’m sure Sapna wasn’t the biggest fan. You were always so generous, remember when we said if we win a million, what we would do and you asked me what I wanted. I said just perfume as that’s all I wanted hehe. I loved how you were always honest with your opinions, I will never forget when you told me that you didn’t like me with blonde hair. Never ever will I go blonde again Pa, you told me the truth and that will stick with me forever. Thank you for being such a wonderful papa to me and always making me feel like I am part of the family, only you called me Alexa and I thought I sounded cool. I will miss you so much and I love you! With great love, Alexa your Chinese 2nd daughter xxx